1:1 Individual Relationship Coaching
Overcome anxiety & insecurity in your relationships, and create thriving, meaningful and loving connections.
If you are feeling anxious, insecure and overwhelmed by self-doubt in your relationships, I see you…
I know how important finding a connected relationship is for you, and how much you want to feel deeply loved & safe with your partner.
But despite your best intentions, it feels like the relationships you end up in never seem to last in the way you’d hoped.
You seem to always end up on the same hamster wheel of anxiety & doubt… that can end up sabotaging a relationship.
And it’s not because you don’t want to change and detach from the anxiety & doubt.
You’re ready…
But right now, this is your reality…
You keep questioning what you’re doing wrong, and why relationships feel SO hard for you, when other people just seem to blink & find the love of their life
You keep asking yourself “What’s wrong with me?”, “Why do other people seem to find relationships so much easier than me?” & “Am I even lovable?”
You worry that you’re too ‘needy’ and constantly wonder whether you are asking for ‘too much’.
When your partner isn’t around, you feel an enormous sense of unease and anxiety. All you want is stability & safety in a relationship! Is that too much to ask?!
You’re constantly looking for reassurance from your partner & external validation from outside of yourself, because deep down… you don’t feel good enough.
You continually ruminate about the status of your partnership, question whether your partner feels the same way as you, and replay conversations and text exchanges in your mind over and over again looking for signs of disconnection and abandonment. You’re like an "Emoji Detective" always analysing what their messages might really mean.
You feel like you are always on high-alert - clingy & often jealous of their friends, ex-partners and colleagues.
And to make things worse, you often find yourself chasing or in relationships/situationships with people who are emotionally unavailable which makes your anxiety and unworthiness intensify.
You’re DONE feeling this way. You want to find a connected, secure & safe relationship more than you’ve ever wanted something before.
Without anxiety and overthinking…
The problem is, it just feels so out of reach.
Well, it’s time to make a change.
Together, we will journey to build:
Awareness
A sense of safety.
Self-compassion.
Self-trust.
IMAGINE A LIFE WHERE YOU…
Felt deeply valued and understood by a partner that just ‘gets you’ (in all of your human-ness), & never makes you feel less than
No longer felt constantly stressed & overwhelmed within your relationships, & instead felt deeply connected with your partner in every single way
Felt confident to express yourself freely & vulnerably so that you could create an authentic and meaningful partnership.
Can set clear boundaries and prioritise your own needs so you could feel less resentful and more connected to yourself and your partner.
Could trust yourself deeply without relying on external validation & reassurance from your partner
Here’s what I know does NOT work…
X Waiting for things to magically sort themselves out, hoping that one day you’ll just wake up & *poof* everything will be better! Newsflash… no action = no change.
X Consuming content without taking action. Reading books, talking to your friends and listening to podcasts is great but when it comes to relationships things don’t just miraculously shift without doing the deep inner work, committing to the process & taking action.
X Dismissing, ignoring, fighting or judging the way you feel and trying to just ‘get over it’. Blaming and shaming yourself is never an effective way to create meaningful change.
The truth of it is… if you keep replaying the same patterns over and over in your relationships, and doing what you’ve always done you’re likely to find yourself feeling resentful, unheard or unfulfilled, making it increasingly difficult to maintain a healthy relationship.
That’s where I come in…
My coaching isn’t just talking.
It's about empowering you with practical strategies and tools to reprogram your thoughts, and body based practices to help with emotional regulation and anxiety.
We walk hand-in-hand together so you feel fully supported throughout the process.
My question for you is - where do you want your life to be in 5 years time?
Do you want to be experiencing the same things you’re experiencing now in relationships, with no clear indication of how things will change?
Are you willing to continue feeling disconnected, fearful & reactive in your relationships?
OR…
Do you want to choose a new future?
A new reality, one where you get to consciously create a partnership which feels present, connected & alive!
Where you feel more authentic and grounded in a deep sense of self-trust.
The quality of your relationships have a profound impact upon your entire life including your physical, mental and emotional health.
Your relationship with others and yourself is something worth investing in.
Are you ready?